About the Writer

Amanda Blasé

What do you want to know?

What gives me the right?

The realizations I've come to make over a lifetime.

Do I have a formal education?

I'm street-smart. Some girls listened to the wild stories. I was the one telling them the next day.

Do I really have enough experience to make these conclusions?

If I didn't think so, I'd be writing poetry or some crap like that.

I married at age 16

Had a baby at age 17

A nasty split around 19 and a long struggle to get where I am

Between then and now:

Shacked up for 12 years

Lived alone for seven years, with a full sex life.

3 children

Run my own business

Currently single because I have yet to meet the man who makes sure I cum every time he does. I have male relief sources and my sweet toys.

The total number of men?

I lost count years ago. Only males keep track of that shit like it's good. I say if you don't bite into the mystery candy, you won't know if it was the best one you'd ever had. I've always felt that way. Unfortunately, I'm still looking for that perfect bite. It's not my fault the males are without skills.

Am I a man-hater?

Oh, honey. I adore those evil creatures. I'm more than addicted. I just refuse to lie anymore. Most men aren't willing to put in half the effort that a real woman requires. That's why they get sluts who cheat and catch diseases.

Why would I tell these secrets? Don't I that know women everywhere will hate me?

Only the stupid ones who use sex for control. So they lost that as a weapon. Grow up and find another whip–like the rest of us do. And while you're bitching, please remember that it was my idea for him to find out how much you love it when he actually manages to make you cum. Not having to fake it was sweet, right? You're welcome.

So I'm going to help?

Oh, yes. With a real man, all you have to do is give him the proper information and he'll handle the task. It's how they're wired. And I make it easy for even those who can barely find their way to this blog. I tell them EXACTLY what to do, but more importantly, what NOT to do.

What about the other lies I'm shattering? Things like female manipulations and how we really feel inside?

Men will never honestly see us as equals until they understand how smart we really are. It's time for women to stop playing dumb and take their place at mans' SIDE. And if men want to stop getting all the blame, they have to stop ignoring us in the ways we allow them to. These 365 lies will smash those barriers and help people determine what type of person they're really with. It will also break some people up, thus the warnings and cautions, but truthfully, those who split while trying to change have often simply realized they need to move on. Most of the men and women who give this a shot will benefit from it in amazing ways. To never have to lie to your man or woman again–to have them accept you for who your really are– is a height that humankind hasn't achieved yet. I want to help.

Something else?

I do the occasional interview. Shoot me some details at amandablase@yahoo.com